How to Get Rid of a Curse: 8 ways to break the hex

If you’re trying to figure out how to get rid of a curse, you’re not alone. Curses show up in every culture on the planet. Doesn’t matter if you call it a hex, the evil eye, black magic, or just really persistent bad luck that won’t let up. The fix looks different depending on who you ask, but the underlying structure is always the same: identify the problem, break the connection, clean up what’s left, and protect yourself going forward.

Here’s what actually works across traditions. Pick the methods that fit your belief system and skip the rest.

What Causes This Problem

Before you start cleansing, figure out if you’re actually cursed or just having a bad month. Common signs: a sudden run of bad luck that defies probability, health problems that doctors can’t explain, relationships collapsing without clear cause, persistent nightmares (especially recurring ones), feeling watched or heavy for no reason, and electronics acting strange around you.

Some of these have perfectly mundane explanations. Stress causes health issues. Bad decisions cause relationship problems. But when several stack up simultaneously and nothing you do seems to break the pattern, that’s when people start looking for answers beyond the obvious.

Curses can come from specific people (someone directed negative intent at you), inherited patterns (family curses passed through generations), places (you picked something up from a location), or objects (that antique you bought at the estate sale). Knowing the source helps you choose the right removal method, but it’s not required. Most of these techniques work even if you have no idea where it came from.

1. Take a Spiritual Cleansing Bath

Salt baths are the first thing every tradition recommends, and for good reason. Dissolve a handful of sea salt or kosher salt in a warm bath. Add uncrossing herbs if you have them (hyssop, rue, or rosemary all work). Soak for at least 20 minutes while focusing on releasing whatever is attached to you. When you’re done, stay in the tub and let the water drain. The unwanted energy goes down with it.

Hoodoo practitioners recommend a series of 7 or 13 consecutive baths for persistent cases. A single bath handles mild situations. If you only have a shower, prepare the mixture in a bucket and pour it over yourself from head to toe. Let it sit for a few minutes before rinsing.

Some traditions add Florida Water cologne or use river water instead of tap. The specifics vary, but the structure stays the same: salt to purify, herbs to cleanse, intention to direct the work.

2. Smudge with Sage or Incense

Light a bundle of dried sage, palo santo, or frankincense incense. Walk through your space slowly, letting the smoke reach every corner, every closet, behind every door. Corners collect stagnant energy. Pay extra attention to them.

The smoke matters less than the intention behind it. You’re walking through your space with purpose, declaring it clean. State it out loud if that helps. "This space is mine. Nothing that doesn’t serve me stays." Some people pray while smudging. Others just focus. Both work.

Open at least one window so the smoke (and whatever it’s carrying) has somewhere to go. Smudging a sealed room just moves things around instead of moving them out.

Create a threshold ritual while you’re at it. Something you do every time you enter your space that marks the transition between outside and inside. That consistency builds a protective pattern over time.

hands holding a burning sage bundle with smoke rising

3. Pray or Invoke a Higher Power

Speak directly to whatever higher power you recognize and ask for protection and cleansing. Be specific. "Remove the curse placed on me" works better than "please help."

Psalm 91 is the single most referenced protective prayer in English-language curse removal guides, and Psalm 51 handles cleansing. Hindu practitioners use the Hanuman Chalisa (chanted 11 times for severe cases) or the Gayatri Mantra. Islamic tradition prescribes Ruqyah – Quran recitation, particularly Surah Al-Baqarah, which is believed to repel negative entities from a home for three days.

If organized religion isn’t your thing, speak plainly in your own words. Address the universe, source, your own highest self, whatever fits. The sincerity matters more than the script. Repeat daily until the situation shifts. Consistency builds momentum that a single session doesn’t.

4. Cut the Energetic Cord

Cord cutting addresses the connection between you and the source of the curse. Light two candles about 12 inches (30 cm) apart on a fire-safe surface. Tie a cotton string between them. One candle represents you. The other represents whatever you’re severing ties with. Light both and let them burn until the flame reaches the string and burns through it.

If candles aren’t practical, pure visualization works. Sit quietly, close your eyes, locate where you feel the connection in your body (usually the chest or stomach), visualize the cord, and cut it cleanly. Watch the severed ends retract.

Important: cord cutting creates an open wound in the energetic body. Always follow with a salt bath, protective prayer, or at minimum, place a hand over the area and visualize it closing. Skipping this step is why some people report feeling worse after cord cutting instead of better.

two candles connected by string for a cord cutting ritual

5. Use a Lemon Cleansing Ritual

Cut a fresh lemon in half and rub it over your body from head to toe. Pay extra attention to the back of the neck, the crown of the head, and the soles of the feet. Practitioners across Latin American brujeria, Filipino hilot, and Italian folk magic all use variations of this. The lemon supposedly absorbs negative energy as it passes over the skin. Discard the used halves at a crossroads or bury them away from your home. Don’t toss them in your kitchen trash.

Multiple practitioners report the lemon turning black as confirmation of curse presence. The practical explanation is oxidation and mold growth in a warm, humid environment. Both interpretations coexist in the tradition.

Fresh lemons only. Bottled juice is pasteurized and processed, which strips whatever properties make this work.

6. Set Up a Mirror Reflection Spell

The simplest return-to-sender method. Place a small mirror facing outward on a windowsill or above your front door. It bounces incoming negative energy back to wherever it came from. Mirror in the window overnight is the standard approach across the online witchcraft community.

For a targeted version: write the name or description of the source on the back of the mirror, wrap it in black cloth, and store it somewhere dark until the situation resolves. Then bury the whole thing away from your home.

A word on ethics: mirror spells are considered aggressive in some traditions because they return the curse to its sender. If someone cursed you, they receive their own work back. If that bothers you, stick with methods that neutralize energy rather than redirect it.

7. Wear a Protective Amulet

This is maintenance, not removal. After you’ve cleansed, wear or carry something charged with protective intent. The evil eye bead (nazar), the Hand of Fatima (hamsa), a cross, black tourmaline, or a small pouch of protective herbs all work. Keep it on your body.

The object matters less than your relationship with it. A river stone you trust completely outperforms an expensive crystal you doubt. Charge it by holding it, stating its purpose, and carrying it daily. Cleanse it monthly by running it through incense smoke or leaving it in moonlight overnight.

Replace or recharge if it cracks, breaks, or feels heavy. A shattered amulet may mean it absorbed a significant hit.

8. Use Sound to Break It Up

Loud, sudden noise breaks up stagnant energy fast. Clap in every corner of every room. Ring a bell. Sound cleansing with bells and clapping works best in corners where energy is said to collect.

Play music that disrupts whatever mood has settled. Something aggressive or obnoxiously cheerful. The discomfort is the point.

If silence is more your thing, commit fully. Turn off every noise source for 30 minutes. No phone, no TV, no background anything. The absence of sound creates a hard reset. Binaural beats at 528 Hz or 432 Hz give your brain something neutral to focus on while everything else settles.

Prevention

Once you’ve cleared the curse, keep it cleared. Regular salt baths (weekly or biweekly) maintain a clean energetic state. Keep your protective amulet charged and on your body. Smudge your space monthly or after any visitor who leaves you feeling drained.

Set boundaries with people who consistently bring negativity. You can’t fix their energy. You can only control how much of it you absorb. And stop accepting gifts, food, or objects from anyone you suspect of ill intent until the situation fully resolves.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you know if you have been cursed?

Look for clusters of improbable bad luck, not isolated incidents. A flat tire is a flat tire. A flat tire, a sudden illness, a broken relationship, and persistent nightmares all starting within the same week suggests something systemic. Pay attention to whether things improve when you change environments. If your bad luck follows you everywhere, it’s attached to you. If it only happens in one location, it’s attached to that space.

Can you remove a curse yourself?

Yes. Most curses respond to self-administered cleansing, especially the methods above. The exceptions are generational curses (deeply embedded family patterns) and professionally cast work (a skilled practitioner specifically targeting you). Those cases sometimes need someone with more experience. But try the basics first. Most people overestimate what’s been done to them.

How long does it take to break a curse?

Mild cases clear in a single session. Persistent ones need 7 to 13 days of consistent daily work (baths, prayer, smudging). If nothing budges after two weeks of daily effort, the issue is either not a curse or it requires a different approach entirely.

How to remove a curse from your family?

Family curses require the same methods, applied to the entire household. Cleanse the home (smudge every room, place salt in corners). Each family member should take cleansing baths individually. Pray together if that’s your tradition. The cord cutting ritual can target the generational pattern rather than a specific person.

Who can remove a curse?

You can. If you prefer professional help, look for a spiritual practitioner within your own tradition. Root workers in Hoodoo, curanderos in Latin American traditions, priests or pastors in Christian denominations that practice deliverance, or imams who perform Ruqyah. Avoid anyone who charges exorbitant fees or tries to create ongoing dependency.

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